My daughter home schools her three children, so for some reason that seems to make many people think they can judge, criticize and throw out all the negative advice they have bottled up inside them. The main thing they all seem to be the most concerned about is that home schooling will populate the world with stuffy snobs unable to communicate with anyone around them.
I just want to know one thing. WHAT class in public school TEACHES how to socialize? I completed twelve years of public school and came out as one of the most shy insecure people you could know.
What class TEACHES how to be polite?
What class TEACHES how to communicate well with others?
What class TEACHES how to like yourself for who you are?
What class TEACHES how to go out into the world and get a job where you can work at a decent pay even if you can't afford to get a college degree?
What class TEACHES family values or values of any kind?
What class TEACHES you how to discover what your talents and interest may be outside of academics?
NO, instead they have taken out all the classes that give you the chance to learn to love music, dancing, sports, or any other talents or interests that may give you self esteem.
NO, instead they throw you into large crowded rooms so you can get bullied and teased if you don't fit into their clicks.
NO, instead you are placed under tremendous pressure to be just as successful as the student who may have the photographic memory and gets a perfect score no matter how difficult it may be for you.
NO, instead you are put under peer pressure to experiment in whatever every bad seed out there may try to do to influence you so that you may fit in with what THEY consider cool.
NO, instead you are shuffled along in the herd to the next class and the next step whether or not you feel you learned the last step because if you aren't pushed into the next class the schools will loose their funding for that new student that takes your , SO when you get to that next step and your already behind you can feel like more of a failure.
When did it become the right thing for parents to wash their hands of their
children's education and well being? When did the word "family" become a bad word? Why shouldn't parents have the right to choose their
child's education and the right to choose to change it if they feel things are not as they should be for the sake of the child?
I worked in a
grammar school before. I saw all the paperwork with the misspelled words as the teachers turned in their paperwork. I heard all the remarks made about the children they LABELED trouble makers or irritating.
Teachers are just people. They are not perfect. Some should not be teaching , they are burned out, yet they continue because it is their "career" and they feel what else would they be doing. I say this because for eight years I witnessed it.
Yes, there are good teachers, but there are good parents that can teach also.
I have five grandchildren. Three are
home schooled and two are in public school. I pray the best for all of them. I've seen my grandson who is only in second grade come home with "red cards" and have received them because he could not sit still in his chair... since when is it normal for a 7 year old boy to sit perfectly still? Who decided that a child could not hear and learn while his leg is hanging off the chair and swinging?
My three grandchildren that are home schooled are the busiest, most social children I've ever known. They participate in baseball, soccer, basketball, piano lessons, music lessons, ballet, theater, gymnastics and church activities. They are at an average or above average grade level in fact my second grade granddaughter is reading at the the top of a third grade level.
Whether it be public school, private school or home school isn't it the DUTY of a parent to participate and to step in to be sure the child is getting the very best education? So why should home school be less? In fact it should be more because these children are given a one on one teaching without the peer pressure, without the bullies and social clicks to worry about. Instead they can LEARN what they are suppose to be learning and leave the socializing to other activities.
As far as learning how to be social..........why shouldn't parents be able to choose the positive side of social activities for their children and be the filter for who their children hang out with.
Isn't this all suppose to be what is best FOR THE CHILD?